First year of marriage brings you both together, makes you feel connected to your partner and lots of fun as well. Couples go for honeymoon, road trip and celebrate every festival with true enthusiasm since it’s the first year of marriage. And meanwhile all of these moments you start learning new things, new changes in yourself as in terms of personality traits. And that’s why we’re dedicating this post to all married couples, especially to the new ones and hoping that some of these points might mirror your relationship and you as well.
You need to accept the fact that giving gifts instead of time won’t nurture your relationship. And that’s the main issue these days and get over this fact if you really want to improve your relationship.It’s not only about relationship instead the changes of life, daily routine and perspective to live with a partner as you know there’s huge difference between living in relationship and living with the same person after marriage and you know it very well.
Important Marriage Lessons We Learned From Our First Year
Respect the differences:
Yes, that’s the very first thing to learn as both husband and wife has different taste, choice and ways of doing things as well. And this seems opposite but ultimately you start learning to respect those differences as it’s someone’s individual identity and personality traits.
Love is also accepting flaws:
No matter if your wife or husband has flaws, no one is perfect yet you accept the flaws and love your partner. You can’t make perfect anyone nor have you to try instead show love and care.
Habits:
Sometimes, bad or unacceptable habits lead you to word with your partner or negativity in relationship. You make sound while eating or wake up late in the morning, your life partner will surely change these habits and you’ll be thankful for that.
You got to know a man and woman:
You’re a man and woman first, that husband and wife thing come later, right! You had been living with your mom, dad and siblings but this one’s new a new personality, man/woman. After marriage you got to learn knowing a man and woman first.
Never take for granted:
This lesson can save your relationship! Either you’re a husband or wife, never take for granted each other. Have some gratitude and thankful attitude towards your partner and praise the efforts he/she make for you.
Happiness in small moments:
You’re young blood and have future plans to buy home, car and a luxury life and you’ll do your best for sure but practically these things take lot of time and you can’t relate your happiness and to such events. Yes, small things can make you happy and nurture your relationship.
Sincerity and care:
You were single, teenager before but now, you’re a married person. Facing struggles and hard times together can bring you that required sincere and care for each other.
Praise each other:
Praising and motivating each other is the key to a successful married life! Small efforts of wife and husbands must be appreciated as don’t think of them as duty or responsibility, instead never miss a chance to praise.
Believe in god:
It’s spirituality! The most beautiful things of life can’t be touched or expressed but you can feel them. The words- love, care, admire, happiness and relationship is all feelings that connect you from god and keeps you grounded.
Hard times make you stronger:
Struggle and obstacles of life, either it’s personal or professional or even taking high risks and decision, you can’t do that alone without your partner’s help. And if you are together with a never give up attitude and keep encouraging and supporting your partner then you’ll have insane confidence and strength.
Now, it’s your turn to drop us your feedback about these aforesaid important marriage lessons we learned from our first year. Feel free to share this post and keep loving and learning!